{"id":12932,"date":"2020-04-30T12:27:09","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T16:27:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nche.com\/?p=12932"},"modified":"2022-11-14T23:19:26","modified_gmt":"2022-11-15T04:19:26","slug":"blog-make-sure-you-are-doing-this-with-your-teenagers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/blog-make-sure-you-are-doing-this-with-your-teenagers\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u00e3y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u1edbi thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"b\u1edfi Mathew McDill, th\u00e1ng 4 n\u0103m 2020<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi con trai l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m qua. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp theo l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Anh \u1ea5y ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, "B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 g\u00ec mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng?" T\u00f4i b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y h\u1ecfi v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hay cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p ng\u1eafn. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 sai!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cN\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, ta c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u01a1i.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, con trai t\u00f4i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u00edt t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ee1 b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quan t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. Chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u1ee9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t vui v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u00f3 khi anh \u1ea5y v\u1eabn \u1edf nh\u00e0. Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t vui v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1c chi ti\u1ebft th\u00f4. Anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Anh \u1ea5y c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n theo l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra. Nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00f4ng con n\u00ean hi\u1ebfm khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang t\u01b0, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch tr\u01b0\u1edbc.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u01b0u ti\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. L\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u01b0u ti\u00ean c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a n\u00f3 v\u00e0o l\u1ecbch. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 n\u00e0y v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con v\u00e0 t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7. G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean l\u1ecbch, h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n, c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p ri\u00eang v\u1edbi t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1edf tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/b><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp theo l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra su\u00f4n s\u1ebb v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u: \u0111\u01b0a h\u1ecd \u0111i \u0103n tr\u01b0a, u\u1ed1ng c\u00e0 ph\u00ea ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1ng mi\u1ec7ng. H\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb. V\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe. \u0110\u1eb7t th\u00eam c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u1eafng nghe. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. Nghe. \u0110\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi ki\u1ec3u quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9o n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i trong ph\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Matthew McDill v\u00e0 v\u1ee3, Dana, s\u1ed1ng \u1edf Clemmons, NC, v\u1edbi s\u00e1u trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1eddi con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Matthew \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 h\u01a1n 25 n\u0103m v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a North Carolinians for Home Education. Anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng M.Div. v\u00e0 Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n Th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc B\u00e1p-t\u00edt \u0110\u00f4ng Nam v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch Loving God: A Practical Handbook for Discipleship. Matthew th\u00edch d\u1ea1y L\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, vai tr\u00f2 m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3, c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i gia.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

c\u1ee7a Mathew McDill, th\u00e1ng 4 n\u0103m 2020 H\u00f4m qua t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p v\u1edbi con trai l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp theo l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Anh \u1ea5y ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, "Em c\u00f3 g\u00ec mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng?" T\u00f4i b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y h\u1ecfi v\u1eady v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ho\u1eb7c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p ng\u1eafn. Ch\u00e0ng trai l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 sai! \u201cN\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u1eadu.\u201d Sau \u0111\u00f3, con trai t\u00f4i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt n\u00f3i v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ee1 b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quan trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t vui v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1edf nh\u00e0. Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t vui v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft th\u00f4. Anh chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Anh \u1ea5y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn. T\u00f4i tin ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra. Nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u00e0i d\u1ef1 ki\u1ebfn v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u con n\u00ean hi\u1ebfm khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang t\u01b0, ngo\u00e0i k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u01b0u ti\u00ean vi\u1ec7c k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. \u01afu ti\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t n\u00f3 l\u00ean l\u1ecbch. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 n\u00e0y v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7. G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean l\u1ecbch g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n v\u1edbi t\u1eebng thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean l\u1ecbch s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra su\u00f4n s\u1ebb v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n l\u00fac n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u: \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang \u0111i \u0103n tr\u01b0a, u\u1ed1ng c\u00e0 ph\u00ea ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1ng mi\u1ec7ng. H\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb5n c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian vui v\u1ebb. V\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t th\u00eam c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u1eafng nghe. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. Nghe. \u0110\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi lo\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i \u1edf thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i trong ph\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi. Matthew McDill v\u00e0 v\u1ee3, Dana, s\u1ed1ng \u1edf Clemmons, NC, v\u1edbi s\u00e1u trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00edn \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Matthew \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 h\u01a1n 25 n\u0103m v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a North Carolinians for Home Education. Anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng M.Div. v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. t\u1ea1i Ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n Th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc Baptist \u0110\u00f4ng Nam v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch Y\u00eau Ch\u00faa: C\u1ea9m nang th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh d\u00e0nh cho m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7. Ma-thi-\u01a1 th\u00edch gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y b\u1eb1ng L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, vai tr\u00f2 m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7, c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":15901,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_wpcom_ai_launchpad_first_post":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[105,137,138],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nche-blog","category-parenting","category-teens"],"acf":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pgvs5H-3mA","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/15901"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12932"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12932\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34246,"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12932\/revisions\/34246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12932"}],"curies":[{"name":"trang web","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}