{"id":26904,"date":"2021-11-02T17:30:35","date_gmt":"2021-11-02T21:30:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nche.com\/?p=26904"},"modified":"2021-11-02T17:30:38","modified_gmt":"2021-11-02T21:30:38","slug":"article-a-little-grace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/article-a-little-grace\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u1ed9t Ch\u00fat \u00c2n S\u1ee7ng"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\nIn our human existence, most of us have a wee bit of an issue giving ourselves the benefit of the doubt. We are self-critical, almost to the point of fault. I find this especially true in the homeschooling community as I watch Facebook posts and answer questions in group sessions. People are afraid they aren\u2019t doing enough, and they are worried they may fail their children. Sound familiar? I was one of those. Now, let me tell you a bit about what I\u2019ve learned over time.<\/p>\n

As a good friend once said, \u201cWe all know stuff. We all don\u2019t know stuff.\u201d My teachers, as I grew up, knew stuff and didn\u2019t know stuff. College professors know stuff and don\u2019t know stuff. Our kids know stuff and don\u2019t know stuff, and when they head to college, there will still be things they don\u2019t know, no matter how well we teach them. We are also learning all the time<\/em>, and so are our kids; there is more to know in a lifetime than any of us will understand, and nobody knows it all.<\/p>\n

I remember a certain point with each of my two kids where I became aware that they knew things I didn\u2019t realize they understood. I remember thinking to myself, \u201cWhere did they get that piece of information?\u201d With each of them, it came somewhere during middle-elementary. Because we did a lot of exploring and discussing information every day, they started finding things on their own or drawing conclusions that hadn\u2019t necessarily surfaced before. I was no longer in control of what they knew, and it struck me. I imagine you have experienced that as well in some measure. It\u2019s good news! It means they are learning despite us! I also remember a distinct point with each of my kids when I knew that they owned their education instead of it being my responsibility.<\/p>\n

With my son, this awareness came during a co-op class where he participated in the creation of a literary journal. Each student had to write articles to put into the product that would be published for our homeschooling community. All along, I stressed because, on his yearly tests, he would score ninety-ninth percentile on every topic except punctuation, and on punctuation, it was like he just didn\u2019t care. When we worked together, I knew he understood the rules, but he always scored toward the bottom on tests. Then came the assignment\u2014edit your neighbor\u2019s article. The beast arose within him! He edited with fervor, became the yearbook copy-editor, and in college, had a philosophy professor tell him that when he wrote his next book, he wanted my son to edit it. This seeming deficit was not a learning issue, and I didn\u2019t influence the change. The journal class tapped into something in him, probably a competitive side, that brought it all together, and he became self-motivated, not just for the literary journal, but for everything (except math\u2014to be addressed a little later in the article).<\/p>\n

With my daughter, it was the day after she got her driver\u2019s license. She had gone out on her first solo adventure one afternoon and called me to say she would be late coming home because she stopped at Barnes & Noble to read The Economist<\/em>. Shock! I didn\u2019t ask her to do that. She was in team-policy debate, and she took the mantle of expanding her education on herself. She drove the learning, not me.<\/p>\n

We had a lot of failures along the way. Please don\u2019t put any of us experienced homeschoolers on a pedestal! I never really did get through math with my daughter. It was a challenging topic, and it became enough of a war that I relinquished after algebra. I knew she knew how to learn and would take it on when she had to. She did exactly that in college as she dug in and got one of her very few Bs in her collegiate career. Still, a B rather than an A was a victory for her because she figured out how to do what she needed to do. My son also pushed back on math with me, so I let the community college be his awakening. He failed his first math course. He didn\u2019t let it define him; he\u2019s now working on a Ph.D. in economics\u2014pretty much a math degree. Maybe I wasn\u2019t good at teaching math. (I wasn\u2019t…shhh!) I was good at making sure we learned cool things along the way, so both of my kids loved learning.<\/p>\n

My point here is that when you present your children with opportunities to learn, they will. They are learning from you and with you all the time. Expose them to cool things. Ensure they get educational feedings of things they are excited about, and they will grow up knowing how to learn. That, in fact, is the goal. <\/em>Why did I title this article \u201cA Little Grace\u201d? I named it that to perhaps inspire you to relax and free yourself to enjoy the process with your children. Don\u2019t worry about failing them; give yourself a little grace!
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\n\t\t\tDiane<\/em> <\/strong>Helfrich<\/strong> is a veteran homeschooler of fourteen years. She now serves as the NCHE development director. She is active in her church music program and loves teaching confirmation to middle schoolers at her church. Outside of church, she has taken up playing the ukulele. She is married to newly-retired David. They have two children. Ian is working on a Ph.D. in economics at Georgia Tech, and Anna is a case manager for trafficked and abused children in Yakima, Washington.<\/em>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n

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M\u00f9a thu n\u0103m 2021\/Diane Helfrich Trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i khi nghi ng\u1edd. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00fang trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i xem c\u00e1c b\u00e0i \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean Facebook v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi trong c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp nh\u00f3m. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 h\u1ecd l\u00e0m ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd lo l\u1eafng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb quen? T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n nghe m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua th\u1eddi gian. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9.\u201d C\u00e1c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, khi t\u00f4i l\u1edbn l\u00ean, bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. C\u00e1c gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. Con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, v\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, v\u1eabn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111ang h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng v\u1eady; c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft trong \u0111\u1eddi h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u01a1i t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u. T\u00f4i nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129: \u201cH\u1ecd l\u1ea5y th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?\u201d V\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong th\u1eddi trung h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 s\u1edf. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y n\u00ean h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y ch\u01b0a nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u00f4i cho\u00e1ng v\u00e1ng. T\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tin t\u1ed1t! N\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang h\u1ecdc b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p ch\u00fang ta! T\u00f4i c\u0169ng nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang s\u1edf h\u1eefu n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang thay v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. V\u1edbi con trai t\u00f4i, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc co-op n\u01a1i n\u00f3 tham gia s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed v\u0103n h\u1ecdc. M\u1ed7i h\u1ecdc sinh ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00ec trong c\u00e1c b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra h\u00e0ng n\u0103m, anh \u1ea5y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m \u1edf m\u1ecdi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb d\u1ea5u c\u00e2u, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 d\u1ea5u c\u00e2u, c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m. Khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft anh \u1ea5y hi\u1ec3u lu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng anh \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m cu\u1ed1i trong c\u00e1c b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra. Sau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5\u2014ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Con th\u00fa tr\u1ed7i d\u1eady trong anh! Anh \u1ea5y bi\u00ean t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u00ean t\u1eadp k\u1ef7 y\u1ebfu, v\u00e0 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng khi anh \u1ea5y vi\u1ebft cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp theo, anh \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n con trai t\u00f4i bi\u00ean t\u1eadp n\u00f3. S\u1ef1 th\u00e2m h\u1ee5t d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. L\u1edbp t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 khai th\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 trong anh, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ea1nh tranh, \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau, v\u00e0 anh tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed v\u0103n h\u1ecdc, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 (tr\u1eeb to\u00e1n - s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf ph\u1ea7n sau c\u1ee7a b\u00e0i b\u00e1o). ). V\u1edbi con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y sau khi ch\u00e1u l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng l\u00e1i xe. M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i phi\u00eau l\u01b0u m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 g\u1ecdi cho t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 mu\u1ed9n v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf Barnes & Noble \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc The Economist. S\u1ed1c! T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang tham gia cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh s\u00e1ch nh\u00f3m v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i. L\u00e0m \u01a1n \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai trong ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00ean b\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ee1 cho nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0! T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4n to\u00e1n v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ee7 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ed1. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t \u00edt \u0111i\u1ec3m B trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec3m B ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec3m A l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m. Con trai t\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc to\u00e1n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i n\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng cao \u0111\u1eb3ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c n\u00f3. Anh ta tr\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u00f4n to\u00e1n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a m\u00ecnh; anh \u1ea5y hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang l\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. v\u1ec1 kinh t\u1ebf - g\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m b\u1eb1ng to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i d\u1ea1y to\u00e1n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi. (T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng\u2026su\u1ef5t!) T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb trong su\u1ed1t ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n cho con b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd \u0111ang h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u1ecdi l\u00fac. Cho ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 hay ho. \u0110\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung c\u1ea5p ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean ch\u00fang s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau. T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 cho b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201cM\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng\u201d? T\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho b\u1ea1n th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u1eebng lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i; cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng nh\u00e9! \n\t\t

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