{"id":34609,"date":"2023-01-04T00:09:55","date_gmt":"2023-01-04T05:09:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nche.com\/?p=34609"},"modified":"2023-01-06T12:33:24","modified_gmt":"2023-01-06T17:33:24","slug":"blog-the-beginning-of-the-end","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nche.com\/vi\/blog-the-beginning-of-the-end\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a k\u1ebft th\u00fac"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>b\u1edfi Jessica Frierson, th\u00e1ng 1 n\u0103m 2023<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u00e1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t k\u1ef7 nguy\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. Con \u00fat c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i s\u1ebd tr\u00f2n b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y n\u1eefa, \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng n\u0103m h\u1ecdc ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f2n kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 n\u1eefa cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u1ee9a con \u00fat c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ecbp n\u00e0y th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n vui l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Khi t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 cho anh c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u00f9a thu n\u0103m 2000, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u01a1n hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m sau, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 cho \u0111\u1ee9a con th\u1ee9 m\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch, t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n vi\u1ec7c \u0111i h\u1ecdc ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u ngu\u1ed3n kh\u00e1c nhau, bao g\u1ed3m Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Ruth Beechik, Raymond v\u00e0 Dorothy Moore, v\u00e0 Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 David Elkind, t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc th\u00f4ng qua ch\u01a1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 <\/span>\u0111\u00e2y<\/span><\/a>, d\u1ea1y m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u00fa v\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. Nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eafm v\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecdc, vi\u1ebft v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc, thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp c\u00e1c th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m khoa h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n l\u1ecbch s\u1eed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m qua, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ecbch h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1c nhau. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i h\u1ecdc quanh n\u0103m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do ngh\u1ec9 ph\u00e9p \u0111\u1ec3 th\u0103m gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngo\u1ea1i bang. Khi gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1edbn l\u00ean, c\u00e1c chuy\u1ebfn th\u0103m ngo\u1ea1i bang tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edt th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh quanh n\u0103m cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 do d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n em b\u00e9 m\u1edbi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, khi gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1ed1m \u0111au ho\u1eb7c lo cho c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. (Tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch kinh kh\u1ee7ng trong khi c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n quanh b\u00e0n \u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc l\u1ecbch s\u1eed!)\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Khi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i l\u1edbn h\u01a1n v\u00e0 tham gia nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 thao v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch trong n\u0103m h\u1ecdc truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng. Trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ecbch h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n v\u1edbi l\u1ecbch truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i h\u1ebft m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng v\u00e0 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1ea5t: s\u00e1u tu\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc, sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 hai tu\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9. Tu\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean cho t\u00f4i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t khu v\u01b0\u1eddn ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i h\u01a1i. Tu\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 xem l\u1ea1i b\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho k\u1ef3 h\u1ecdc k\u00e9o d\u00e0i s\u00e1u tu\u1ea7n t\u1edbi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Theo c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p so\u1ea1n gi\u00e1o \u00e1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i thay \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0, t\u00f4i gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u1ed5 cho m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, trong \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang trong t\u1eebng m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc b\u1ed1n ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n. Th\u1ee9 Hai, hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cNg\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9\u201d, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e0nh l\u00e0m ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u tu\u1ea7n m\u1edbi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o th\u1ef1c \u0111\u01a1n cho tu\u1ea7n, thanh to\u00e1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 h\u00f3a \u0111\u01a1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u1ea5u hai m\u1ebb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 cho v\u00e0o ng\u0103n \u0111\u00e1. cho nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u0103m ng\u00e0y h\u1ecdc m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n. L\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00eam khuya \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ch\u01a1i\"\"<\/a> b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o Th\u1ee9 Hai-Ng\u00e0y Th\u1ee9 Hai. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m t\u00f4i c\u00f3 con \u1edf h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u2013 tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh, tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i, m\u1ea7m non, ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, trung h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u00e0 trung h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?!?\u201d Nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng n\u00e0y th\u1eadt qu\u00fd gi\u00e1...v\u00e0 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng...v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m...v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi...v\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u0111\u00f3, gi\u00e1o \u00e1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00f3 n\u0103m \u00f4 vu\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u th\u1ecb c\u00e1c ng\u00e0y trong tu\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u00e1m \u00f4 vu\u00f4ng ph\u00eda d\u01b0\u1edbi cho c\u00e1c m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc: ng\u1eef v\u0103n, to\u00e1n, l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, khoa h\u1ecdc, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft tay v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt (c\u00f3 , T\u00f4i c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng qu\u00e1 tham v\u1ecdng. Kh\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch.) T\u00f4i gi\u1eef b\u1ea3n sao ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb sao ch\u00e9p n\u00f3 v\u00e0o s\u1ed5 tay c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n, h\u1ecd nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ch\u1eafp c\u00e1nh cho n\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp theo trong m\u1ed7i cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea3i ruy b\u0103ng xanh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5t trong h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee3 khoa h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ee9ng nh\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c nh\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c thi \u0111\u00e1nh v\u1ea7n v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i trong d\u00e0n nh\u1ea1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. M\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng trong cu\u1ed9c thi ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn l\u1ecbch s\u1eed. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 khoe khoang v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 khoe khoang v\u1ec1 quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00fang ta trong s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i khi ch\u00fang ta trung th\u00e0nh tin c\u1eady Ng\u00e0i. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra ngay sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qua nh\u1eefng n\u0103m c\u00f3 em b\u00e9, tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111i ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o trong nh\u00e0, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 tr\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. N\u00f3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01a1n, y\u00ean t\u0129nh h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u\u2013\u00e0, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng qu\u00e1 tham v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi, \u201cc\u00f3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat\u201d. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quay l\u1ea1i vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u1ed5 cho m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian ng\u1ee7 tr\u01b0a, thay t\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c cho em b\u00e9 \u0103n. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1edd chi\u1ec1u. V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n b\u1ed1n ng\u00e0y; Th\u1ee9 S\u00e1u l\u00e0 "Fundays" c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn, ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 xem c\u00e1c video gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hai m\u01b0\u01a1i hai n\u0103m h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf ph\u00eda sau t\u00f4i; m\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c l\u00e2u h\u01a1n n\u1eb1m \u1edf ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i! Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau th\u00edch Uy\u1ec3n chuy\u1ec3n<\/a> m\u00e0 homeschool cung c\u1ea5p. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quay l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c \u0111i? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd d\u00e0nh \u00edt th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n cho c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m m\u00e0 t\u00f4i nghe th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh m\u1edbi h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1eadp trung h\u01a1n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u1edf nh\u00e0. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 lo l\u1eafng li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u01b0a. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u00edt lo l\u1eafng h\u01a1n. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd sao l\u01b0u t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t khi bo m\u1ea1ch ch\u1ee7 m\u00e1y t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ecb b\u00e1m b\u1ee5i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ea7y th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, t\u1ef1 do, nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i mong \u0111\u1ee3i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u01b0a? V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat xem tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e9n l\u00fat. B\u1ea3n xem tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e9n l\u00fat \u0111\u00e3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y v\u00e0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u1ea7y ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch, t\u00f4i th\u00eam h\u1ecdc sinh cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o s\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3m danh (d\u00f9 sao c\u0169ng l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh trong \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i) v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Jessica Frierson t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 cho m\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2000. C\u00f4 l\u00e0 th\u01b0 k\u00fd cho NCHE, vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i cho GREENHOUSE v\u00e0 l\u00e0 blogger ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a blog NCHE.<\/em><\/p>\n

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T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Jessica Frierson.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

by Jessica Frierson, January 2023 This month marks the beginning of the end of an era in my life. My youngest child will turn seven in just a few days, marking the beginning of his official school years. Although we have a decade or so remaining until our youngest will graduate, the occasion is very bittersweet for me. When I began homeschooling his oldest brother in the fall of 2000, I had no idea that over twenty years later I would be starting my tenth child on their official home education journey. In many ways, I conduct our homeschool in the same manner that I did in those early years. We take a relaxed approach to education with plenty of nature study, hands-on activities, and delaying formal schooling until age seven. I learned from various sources, including Dr. Ruth Beechik, Raymond and Dorothy Moore, and Dr. David Elkind, the importance of the young child having the opportunity to learn through play until their brains and motor skills are more developed. As I have written about here, teaching each child how to read and write is one of the most thrilling experiences of my life. Many fond memories have been made over the years working with each child to master the basics of reading, writing, and arithmetic, setting up science experiments, or diving into a period of history. Over the years, we have had a variety of school schedules. Initially, we schooled year-round and freely took days off to visit family out-of-state. As our family grew, the out of state visits became less frequent. Still, the year-round schedule allowed us the freedom to take time off for the arrival of a new baby, sickness in the family, or catching up on household needs. (Toddlers can wreak an amazing amount of havoc while the rest of the family is gathered around the dining table for a history lesson!)\u00a0\u00a0 As my children got older and were more involved in church and sport activities, we discovered that most of those activities were planned around the traditional school year. For several years after that, we altered our school calendar to match the traditional one more closely. Now we have come full circle and returned to the schedule that suited us most: six weeks of school followed by a two-week break. The first week off gives me a chance to tackle household chores, get the garden under control, or just catch my breath. The second week is used to go over completed school work and plan out the next six-week session.\u00a0 In a similar vein, my method of lesson planning has had a few twists and turns before returning to my original approach. One bonus of homeschooling for so many years is that I have had time to finetune what works best for our family. In the first years of homeschooling, I kept a notebook for each child in which I wrote out their assignments in each subject for each day, and we did school four days a week. Monday, a.k.a. \u201cMomday,\u201d was set aside as my day to get the week off to a good start by creating a menu for the week, pay any bills that were due, and cook double batches of a few things to put in the freezer for the busier days ahead.\u00a0 For several years after that, we had five days of school per week. This schedule meant that I had a lot of late nights trying to play catch up on all of those activities I had previously done on my Monday-Momday. These were also the years I had a child at virtually every stage possible\u2013infant, toddler, preschool, elementary, middle school, and high school. These were also the days I look back on now and say to myself, \u201cHow did I survive?!?\u201d These years were precious\u2026and crazy busy\u2026and full of memories\u2026and exhausting\u2026and wonderful.\u00a0 In those busy years, my lesson plans were put on a grid of five squares across to represent the days of the week and eight squares down for the subjects studied: language arts, math, history, science, music, handwriting, and art (yes, I tend to be over-ambitious. No, we didn\u2019t fit it in as often as I planned.) I kept the master copy of this plan and referred to it to copy into my kids\u2019 notebooks as often as I could. More often, they looked at it then went off to do their assignments. There were many days where we just winged it, with everyone just doing the next thing in each of their books. Somehow, my kids won blue ribbons and best of show in the science fair, placed first or second in the spelling bee, and played in the community orchestra. One of them won a history essay contest. I say this not to boast in our achievements but to boast in God\u2019s power to help us in our weaknesses when we are faithful to trust Him. I think each one of these events occurred shortly after a period of me feeling discouraged about effectively homeschooling my children. Now that we are beyond the years of having babies, toddlers, or even preschoolers in the house, homeschooling looks a lot different. It is calmer, quieter, much more organized\u2013well, there\u2019s still my tendency to be overly ambitious and spontaneous, so maybe we should just stick with, \u201cslightly more organized.\u201d I have gone back to writing out daily school assignments in a notebook for each child. Lessons don\u2019t have to be planned around naptime, diaper changes, or feeding the baby. We are finished by early afternoon. And we have returned to a four-day week for the most part; Fridays are our \u201cFundays.\u201d. We do online art lessons, play games, and watch educational videos. Twenty-two years of homeschooling are behind me; eleven or so lie ahead. It is certainly a lifestyle for our family! We have loved the flexibility that homeschool offers. If I could go back to the beginning, what would I do differently? 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