{"id":29286,"date":"2022-03-16T00:22:50","date_gmt":"2022-03-16T04:22:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nche.com\/?p=29286"},"modified":"2022-11-09T23:23:49","modified_gmt":"2022-11-10T04:23:49","slug":"blog-siblings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nche.com\/zh\/blog-siblings\/","title":{"rendered":"\u9690\u85cf\u7684\u5b9d\u85cfPt\u3002 2\uff1a\u5144\u5f1f\u59d0\u59b9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u6770\u897f\u5361\u00b7\u5f17\u91cc\u68ee (Jessica Frierson)\uff0c2022 \u5e74 3 \u6708<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-29316 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nche.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Elise-and-Ben-with-guitars-1.jpg?resize=350%2C257&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"257\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u6676\u4f53\u7684\u5f62\u6210\u6709\u4e94\u4e2a\u6761\u4ef6\uff1a\u6210\u5206\u3001\u6e29\u5ea6\u3001\u538b\u529b\u3001\u65f6\u95f4\u548c\u7a7a\u95f4\u3002 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center;\"><em>\u4f60\u5728\u8036\u548c\u534e\u624b\u4e2d\u4e5f\u5fc5\u6210\u4e3a\u534e\u51a0\uff0c <\/em><em>\u548c\u4f60\u4e0a\u5e1d\u624b\u4e2d\u7684\u738b\u51a0\u3002<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u4ee5\u8d5b\u4e9a\u4e66 62:3<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/nche.com\/zh\/community\/regions\/two\/frierson_jessica\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1317\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1317 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nche.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Frierson_Jessica.jpg?resize=80%2C100&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"80\" height=\"100\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nche.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Frierson_Jessica.jpg?w=80&amp;ssl=1 80w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nche.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Frierson_Jessica.jpg?resize=10%2C12&amp;ssl=1 10w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 80px) 100vw, 80px\" \/><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>\u6770\u897f\u5361\u00b7\u5f17\u91cc\u5c14\u68ee (Jessica Frierson) \u662f\u4e00\u540d\u5bb6\u5ead\u5b66\u6821\u6bd5\u4e1a\u751f\uff0c\u81ea 2000 \u5e74\u4ee5\u6765\u4e00\u76f4\u5728\u5bb6\u6559\u80b2\u5979\u7684 10 \u4e2a\u5b69\u5b50\u3002\u5979\u62c5\u4efb NCHE \u7684\u79d8\u4e66\uff0c\u4e3a\u00a0<\/em>\u6e29\u5ba4<em>, \u5e76\u4e14\u662f<\/em>\u00a0NCHE \u535a\u5ba2\u3002<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Jessica Frierson, March 2022 There are five requirements for crystals to form: ingredients, temperature, pressure, time, and space, according to Gem Rock Auctions.\u00a0 If you are the parent of more than one child, you know that all of these ingredients are present in your home. Take a road trip with those children, and you will see the temperature and pressure grow in proportion to the space decreasing and the time increasing! But take heart; all of that pressure and heat work together to produce something beautiful.\u00a0 Riches you hold in your hands are inferior to treasures you store in your heart. Matshona Dhliwayo \u201cThe majority of gemstones are formed by metamorphism. This is when minerals are forced together under great pressure and heat\u2026. The minerals are forced together and they metamorphose into different minerals, sometimes without melting.\u201d This sounds like a portrayal of our last family vacation, about five hours into an eleven-hour drive. The formation of gemstones is an apt description of sibling life. As writer Harper Lee says in To Kill a Mockingbird, \u201cYou can choose your friends but you sho&#8217; can&#8217;t choose your family.\u201d Brothers and sisters will live together in the same house, often sharing bedrooms, for the formative years of their lives. Their shared experiences will shape their characters and greatly impact their futures.\u00a0 I thought how great it would be if we could trade in Fudge for a nice cocker spaniel. That would solve all my problems. I\u2019d walk him and feed him and play with him. He could even sleep on the edge of my bed at night. But of course that was wishful thinking. My brother is here to stay. And there\u2019s nothing I can do about it. Judy Blume, Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing One of the hidden treasures in life is having another person in your house who calls the same people \u201cmom\u201d or \u201cdad\u201d that you do. Although you may (or rather, will) get on each other\u2019s nerves at times, children who grow up with a sibling likely have a built-in best friend, teammate, co-conspirator, and sounding board. While sibling rivalry can certainly get out of hand, a little friendly competition can motivate children to work harder and do their best. In speaking with parents with an only child, their child\u2019s lack of a sibling has been one of the most challenging aspects of homeschooling. Who has brothers or sisters and hasn\u2019t argued like cats and dogs with them? It\u2019s almost a prerequisite for moving through childhood! There\u2019s hardly a sibling that doesn\u2019t have at least one good fight story to pull out. But if the tables are turned, you know who you can count on to always have your back.For homeschooled children, there is no break from being together while each goes to their separate classroom or school campus for the day. This can result in increased tension and quarrelsome behavior. A telltale sign that it\u2019s time for some space from each other is when \u201che\u2019s looking at me\u201d becomes grounds for war to break out in your house. Giving them opportunities to have time alone in a quiet place can help reduce the strain and strengthen their relationships with each other. It is important to take the means necessary to nurture the growth of such precious gems as you have in the making. You want them to treasure the many benefits of having their brothers and\/or sisters to walk with through life. Someone to get in trouble with Every parent knows that feeling of sudden dread. The children are playing in their room, their shouts and laughter filling the air. Then, suddenly, you realize that it is quiet\u2026very quiet. Too quiet! And every parent also knows that silence almost ALWAYS accompanies trouble.\u00a0 When children are doing nothing, they are doing mischief. Henry Fielding Years down the road, your children will probably shock you with recounts of the close encounters they faced together\u2014stories that they were sworn to secrecy over at the time they occurred. Yet, watching their faces as they relate their tales of silly pranks and near catastrophes, you will see the reflection of joy exuding from their hearts. Like diamonds enshrined in gold, shared shenanigans have a way of forming an unshakeable bond.\u00a0 \u00a0Someone to laugh with If you can\u2019t let your guard down around your brother or sister, who can you be yourself around? Children make up games at the dinner table that consist of nothing other than, \u201cbetcha I can make you laugh first!\u201d and then simply staring at each other with a goofy expression. They can share a joke between themselves that no one else will ever understand. Growing up with such shared experiences as siblings do gives them an abundant supply of inside jokes and a treasure chest full of material for future roasting.\u00a0 Sister. She is your mirror, shining back at you with a world of possibilities. She is your witness, who sees you at your worst and best, and loves you anyway. She is your partner in crime, your midnight companion, someone who knows when you are smiling, even in the dark. She is your teacher, your defense attorney, your personal press agent, even your shrink. Some days, she&#8217;s the reason you wish you were an only child. Dr. Barbara Alpert, MD &nbsp; Someone to share your sorrows with Whether it is spilling ketchup on your favorite shirt or your first heartbreak over unrequited love, your sibling is likely to have the shoulder that you cry on. Just as they know why you are laughing without any need for words, they also feel your hurts as if they were their own.\u00a0 A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need. Proverbs 17:17 &nbsp; Someone to play with My children get so accustomed to having their siblings around that they can easily take them for granted. 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